Friends with an ex?
Posted by Vesi on June 29, 2009
Is there such a thing as staying friends with an ex-boyfriend/ girlfriend?
Maybe some people do it. Maybe it’s possible if you broke up with mutual agreement, but how do you separate friendship from something more after knowing someone for 8 years and spending 5 of these years together? How do you save the friendship when there are so many other issues like difference in interests, ideas, dreams, etc? Some people call it love, others madness, I call it…well, I haven’t figured it out yet. It’s a mystery how it all works…Well, not really, we know what happens in each others lives, we both have shoulders to cry on (in this case, the crying happens vie the Internet), we are atracted physically to each other, but at the same we can’t spend a day without quarelling because we are so different. How do you separate from the person who kept you alive and sane for all these years back then? No communication hurts, any communication hurts. Even though you try to keep the friendly tone, in the end it all comes back and it freaking hurts…
No matter how much you try to convince yourself that everything is under control in reality it’s not…it’s a freaking vicous cycle with no way out…
